Me : So is this necessary ?
Voice : What ?
Me : Differences and hostility between people who love each other ?
Voice : No
Me : Then why do you let it happen ?
I know its all working out of Karmas, etc and I know you play a big part here, but can you keep those bitter moments outside this wonderful relationship ? I mean if I have to get mean, I would rather take it out on some stranger outside than on someone I love - That way you get me to work my karmas but I prevent my close ones from pain and anguish.
Voice : Hmm...interesting. Work those karmas but risk that working on somebody you can 'afford to' ?
Me : Yeah! Cause I reckon all these arising differences are to work these Karmas!
Voice : Let me offer you a perspective. Let's say some stranger treated your wife with disrespect. Out of love for your wife, you obviously stand up for her and confront the other man. This escalates and now you have a full fledged feud with all three involved. Now, this has no boundaries since its 'outside your' personal space and you defend your unrestricted response and fuel the escalation. This now possibly further opens doors to more people getting involved in this. What you have now is a full blown mess with fresh karmic entanglements and more people involved.
Whereas, I prefer to keep the despair, anguish, angry bouts between closed ones who love each other - not only have I 'restricted' it between two people, I have also contained the drama that could have been much worse with emotions running high. This may appear cruel at times, but trust this is My Compassion for you. I love you and I have to free you from the bondage of karma and also protect you from incurring unnecessary karmic baggage. Its important that you know I have facilitated the escalation and it is I who will prompt the de-escalation, the moment the purpose is served.
For this, I often present opportunities between closed ones to exercise love over hate, forgiveness over resentment, deeper understanding over irritation, kindness over bitterness, trust over jealousy, and giving instead of receiving.
Me : Its a strange life of Karmas between the loved ones.....always our loved ones..
